What to do with INFIDELITY? -by Heidi Hornlein

Infidelity can break relationships - or help them to transform into a different level. It hurts, yes, and it seems much easier to go and forget about the relationship, try somebody new and follow your desires. Staying in a relationship when your partner has cheated you is shameful today, is seen as not taking care for yourself, as being a victim and weak. Well, if it wasn't so?  The following talk by Esther Perel will give you some new insides into this topic - as it did for us: When we cheat on our partner, it isn't always our partner that we are turning away from, but we are terning away from what we, ourselves, have become. It isn't so much that we are looking for another person, as much as we are looking for another SELF Most people who cheat are feeling ALIVE. Death and mortality often live in the shadow of an affair. So cheating [...]