I just came across an article by  Robbie Gonzalez which I want to share with you, my audience in regard to relationships. who holds the power in a relationship?

It is surprising how we can detect by the use of specific words how the authority relationship between people is. Go back to your email exchange with a boss or with your beloved and have a look who is using the word “I” more often, who is speaking more about him or herself? And guess what the power-relationship is between you and the other person?

Check out this article  and have fun in finding out!

I especially like the quote at the end of the article citing Alix Spiegel: “You can’t  change who you are by changing your language; you can only change your language by changing who you are”.This is what  his research indicates.